You know you have a best friend when you realize you couldn’t be happy if they weren’t in your life anymore.

It’s only a bit sad because I have maybe two people who do that for me.

I just want to kiss him. God, I want to kiss him.

He doesn’t know how I feel. And I don’t know if I want a relationship with him. We’re barely even friends. But I want us to kiss.

Kiss me.

hi hellow.. how are you…hos your feeling now with your friend? me untill now im looking for best friend.. now i found some one. but sometimes she feels , im just ordinary.. but resally i really want her to bemy friend..

Hello! I don’t know how the submitter is doing with his/her friend, but we’ll hope it’s turning for the best.

I’m glad you’ve found someone who can be a good friend to you, but what makes you think you’re so ordinary? Ordinary is a relative term, anyhow. You may think you’re ordinary but I’m certain there are things about you that are extraordinary and unique and wonderful. Spend time with her and share what you have in common, and it could very well lead to a strong friendship between the two of you!

She doesn’t know how lucky she is that I’m friends with her, let alone that I’m still alive. She takes me for granted and she says things that break my heart and one day I won’t be able to take it. If she can’t respect me, she’s going to lose me. My life is worth more than that.

I have a friend. She’s a sweet girl, very intelligent, cute, skinny, athletic, kind.

But it always feels like she’s out to get me. I love her and I know she cares about me a little but somehow she always ends up being really insensitive toward me and she doesn’t realize how much it hurts. Or even, worse yet, she has confessed that sometimes she is completely aware of the fact that she hurts me but she keeps doing it anyway. In any other circumstance, I would confront her and tell her I can’t do it anymore, that I would be civil and friendly but that we can’t maintain a real friendship when I’m afraid of being hurt all the time. But we have a lot of fun together and I’ve known her for a while. She might hurt me, but she also cheers me up sometimes and if anything bad were to happen she would be one of the first people to pray for me and see that I’m okay.

She’s already nearly perfect, but her bitchy attitude is what makes it hard to be around her. Maybe one day she’ll finally figure it out. I’m going to be around to see that it happens.

I want a boyfriend. But there’s so much more to it than that. Yes, I want to be loved, because I need love so much right now, but it’s not necessarily that I want a boyfriend. I want to be a girlfriend. I want to be everything for someone else, and then in giving someone what they need, I can find purpose for me and maybe that will truly convince me that I can love myself, that I am worth being loved.

i need to say this. recently i was about to get in a fight but i really dont care for fighting so i ignored it. the fight mainly was going to start because of what i heard with my two ears about my best friend. the person was calling her a hoe saying she suck dick and everything. so i told my best friend everything. then the person approached me in the ocker room and tried to fight me. thank god some random person help me and was like dont fight and other stuff. another time in class the person walked up to me and asked if i wanted to fight and i was like not really it isnt any point and the person was like ok. then later when someone called me the person was like hey fat ass someone is calling you get your fat ass up and answer. i really didnt wan to entertain tat person so i left it along. did i do the right thing? and if the person say something else to me should i just fight and stand my ground.

There’s nothing wrong with refraining from fighting. If anything I’m glad you were able to hold back. I don’t think violence is going to help your situation.

I’m just an english major in college —I’m no professional with advice or a lot of experience— but I think you did the right thing. You’re standing your ground by not fighting this person. If he or she does confront you again, you’re certainly able to defend yourself and your friend. I’d like to hope this person doesn’t attack you and will learn to leave you and your friend alone. He/she isn’t accomplishing anything by verbally antagonizing your friend.

You do what you think is right. Trust your gut.

Right after we broke up I told my ex boyfriend that I was pregnant just so he’d stay around. Then I told him I miss carried. And then I told him that after going to the doctor, that it was just a hysterical pregnancy so he didn’t actually think that I was pregnant. All so he would stay around.